Joy found in my gift of hospitality and fine food exploded when I was celebrating a belated Christmas get-together with Carol, a friend of 31 years. Our time in each other’s company is always rich; my desire for our merrymaking was that my food would give honor, blessing our long-term bond. This delicious dish answered this ambition beyond my expectations. I share it here for your use with those close to you.
Friendship and food are both treasured gifts. When we mix the two together, life pours forth. I always endeavor to meet my guests’ particular needs, thus making each dinner engagement unique and exceptional.
For instance Carol doesn’t like hors d’ouvres, as they were never served in her family of origin; for her they take away from an acute appetite for the main meal. Consequently, we just partake in tea and conversation for the first half hour of our gathering.
This sensible person has a heightened awareness of taste. She knows good food and eats with purpose, maximally enjoying each bite. This takes concentration; my friend allows herself this luxury; thus, we spend much of our repast in silence, focusing on gastronomic pleasures.
This discipline was first displayed to me when I was 20 years old, while waiting on table in my father’s restaurant. (Joy unspeakable happened to me then, as I served the public with our exceptional ailments.)
My About Page on this website notes that which is true for each of us: it details the unfolding of my destiny, which has been happening throughout my entire life-I was born a food historian. An excellent example of this destiny-making process is what I learned about the gift of hospitality, while serving the public in my youth; during that instructive time, a young couple showed me what a treasure stillness brings to eating.
Tourists peopled my family’s eatery in Glacier National Park and this unique pair was probably there on their honeymoon. I initially approached their table with rousing emotion, my usual display of a genuine heartfelt welcome. My spirit, however, was quickly corrected. This excitable enthusiasm, which was normally highly pleasing to those on holiday, was not appropriate in their presence, for there was a holy reverence about them. My sensitive response was an immediate change of demeanor.
Throughout their lengthy feast, I watched them with awe, as they indulged in each other’s company and our kitchen’s delights, in their unparalleled way. I intuitively knew how to respect them with a quiet spirit. This, however, was so foreign to me that I felt like I was walking on egg shells. But oh the glory of it all!
Since then, God has given me a friend with whom I can practice what these two taught me, forty odd years ago. Carol and I uphold veracity in all of life’s dealings; thus, even our eating is veracious. Because of the honesty in our souls, we engage in veneration to God as we consume food; therefore, you can see my need for a dish that would rise to our integrity, which I knew would be present at this gathering.
My heart’s desire was met in this Parmesan Dover Sole recipe; how facile and pleasing it is beyond words.
Parmesan Dover Sole Total prep time: 1 1/3 hr/ active prep time: 50 min/ baking time: 30 min. Yields: 3-4 servings. Note: you may double this recipe, leftovers are great, however fish only keeps for 3 days.
1/2 tsp oil (Coconut oil is best here for flavor and quality; you may also use avocado oil; olive oil is carcinogenic, when heated to high temperatures.)
1 med yellow onion, halved at the root and cut in even 1/8 inch slices
5 med cloves garlic, minced (May substitute 2 cubes frozen garlic from Trader Joe’s for easy prep.)
1 lb Roma tomatoes, chopped small (Organic is best; the organic Roma variety is not that much more expensive than regular tomatoes.)
1/2 tsp sugar, optional (This brings out the flavor in the tomatoes.)
1/2 tsp salt, or to taste (Himalayan, pink, or Real Salt is critical for optimum health; a fine grind Himalayan salt is available at Costco for $4.95/5 lb.)
1/4 tsp fresh ground pepper, or to taste
1/2 tsp Better Than Bouillon (This soup base, in either chicken or vegetable flavor, will do; available at most grocery stores.)
3/4 c boiling water
Spray oil (Pam coconut spray oil is ideal, available more reasonably in our local Winco brand.)
1 lb Dover sole fillets, or other type of whitefish, such as flounder (Dover sole is a type of sole that has very thin fillets, which is ideal for absorbing sauces; see Thai Coconut/Lime Flounder, 2016/12/05.)
1 c Parmesan cheese, grated or shaved
Rice, steamed according to directions on package
- Preheat oven to 350 degrees. (If you prepare dish ahead of time, do steps 2 through 9 before hand; then, begin preheating oven 1 hour before serving.)
Heat oil in a large sauté pan over med/low heat; add onions and caramelize, by stirring every several minutes until color starts to form (see photo); then, stir every minute until dark brown (see photo below). Do not crowd onions in pan, or they will sweat, taking much longer to cook.
- If using fresh garlic, chop and set aside. Spray tomatoes with an inexpensive, effective vegetable spray, a mixture of 97% distilled white vinegar and 3% hydrogen peroxide; let sit for 3 minutes; rinse well.
- Meantime dissolve Better Than Bouillon in the hot water, set aside.
- Chop tomatoes in small pieces and place in another frying pan; add garlic, bouillon mixture, sugar, salt, and pepper, stirring well. Bring to a boil over medium heat; then, turn heat down to med/low; simmer gently for about 20 minutes, or until a sauce is formed, with the tomatoes somewhat chunky (see above photo). Adjust seasoning when sauce is complete. (For tips about cooking properly with garlic, see Tomato/Feta Chicken, 2016/07/25.)
Begin steaming the rice while tomatoes are cooking. (If you are preparing this ahead of time, start this starch when you put cold fish dish in preheated oven, 50 minutes before serving.)
- For a single recipe, spray with oil a 9 1/2″ x 7 1/2″ x 3″ pan or 2 1/2-quart baking dish (for a double recipe, use a 9 1/2″ x 13″ x 2″ pan). Place fish fillets in bottom of pan.
- Pour prepared sauce over raw fish and sprinkle with Parmesan cheese, see top photo. (If preparing this ahead, refrigerate fish dish at this point.)
- Bake in preheated 350 degree oven for 30 to 50 minutes-time varies if fish is cold from the refrigerator. Fish is done when its center is opaque and it flakes with a fork.
- Enjoy this incredibly good dish! Leftovers are also delicious.